Ayden made his entrance into the world Friday August 6th at 7:32 in the morning! We are now proud parents, it feels a bit weird to say that but it’s true–all he does is eat, poop, pee, sleep–not a whole lot to be proud of but I guess that’s what it means to be a parent–to love and be proud of him for just being my son. Anyway, it’s pretty cool. The labor went really well. It all started early Thursday morning. Alexa awoke at 3am having very mild contractions 15 minutes apart. Me, being the all observant husband slept through these first contractions and by the time I woke up around seven things had pretty much calmed down and the contractions were inconsistent and far apart. It was my day off from work so after roasting coffee in the morning we took a day trip to Bellingham, Wa. Around 3pm the contractions started up again this time a consistent 10 minutes apart. By 5pm they were between 7 and 8 minutes apart and we thought that it might be time to give up the thrift store shopping for the day!
On the way home I got pretty good at timing the contractions (it also helped that Alexa was very predictable) and I could count down pretty much to the second when the next one would start. This was a lot of fun for me but I think Lex was less thrilled with my mad timing skills! I called into to work and excitedly told them that I wouldn’t be in for the next few days–it’s a unique experience to inform your employer that you won’t be in for you shift and not get fired for it–baby’s are a great way to get a vacation; however, it wasn’t quite so relaxing for Alexa! We made it home, bbq’d ribs for dinner, I went for a run and bought another air popcorn popper at a garage sale, ( I use these for coffee roasting in case you were wondering) and we all sat around drinking wine. It was a very relaxing evening. Alexa and I went to bed around 10 and watched wipe-out till about midnight. By then the contractions were getting much more severe and closer to 5 minutes apart. To help her relax we drew a bath and put candles out with lavender and nice music and hung out in the bathroom–a very nice bathroom mind you–for the next couple hours. At 2am we called the midwife, Charlotte, who arrived around 3:30. It was around this time that I would say active labor began.
From 4am-6:45am the contractions got closer together and increasingly painful; Alexa however, did great and bore the pain with incredible dignity and an awesome attitude. (I didn’t even get cross look) At a quarter till seven her water broke, it’s not the gush that the phrase “water broke” conjures up. When people talked about that I always thought it was supposed to be like the Iowa floods of 2003 or something. . . I was mildly disappointed. Shortly after this we moved to the bedroom and things really kicked into high gear! Alexa continued to have bad contractions and it didn’t help that she had to have an IV of antibiotic to protect the baby from the GBS–something, something, strep–anyway, it wasn’t much fun for Alexa and I busied myself with cleaning out the bowl she puked in (my duties were pleasurable compared to what Alexa was going through and If you have never considered cleaning out someones puke bowl pleasurable then just compare it to pushing a size 3 soccer ball out your uterus while being forced to lie still as a needle with an IV full of penicillin which feels like fire under your skin is threaded into your hand–not pleasant–I’ll clean puke all day!). Next she started pushing and after 20 minutes of that out popped Ayden! I got to catch him on his way out–probably on the most nerve-racking and exhilarating experiences I’ve ever had! I placed him on Alexa’s belly and there he was, little Ayden! He cried right away to let us know he was healthy. . . It was pretty incredible. So that is the story of my son’s birthday–and yes, if you can’t tell, I am a very proud dad!